Militant said:

I'm sort of against them kinda.... but as a recent divorcee I'm pretty sure that I have to have one soon so that I don't continue to exist in this strange transient state.

Certainly I have to have one before I even consider getting into another relationship.

Problem is, I think I forgot how.

But why?

ZombieKitten said:

I never did have one, not because I was against it, just because they all came back for seconds, and thirds etc

Good answer

thekidsgirl said:

Militant said:

I'm sort of against them kinda.... but as a recent divorcee I'm pretty sure that I have to have one soon so that I don't continue to exist in this strange transient state.

Certainly I have to have one before I even consider getting into another relationship.

Problem is, I think I forgot how.

But why?

Well, I need to get over my issues with emotional attachment for a start. And I have relationship anxiety as a divorcee.... but I obviously don't wanna be celibate.

thekidsgirl said:

I had two of them. One was terrible cause the guy got guilty feelings the next day, over a woman he'd already broken up with and who'd moved across the Atlantic. The other one was very nice but not a man I wanted to start a relationship with.

But if you protect yourself and don't hurt anyone, why not?

Teacher said:

I had two of them. One was terrible cause the guy got guilty feelings the next day, over a woman he'd already broken up with and who'd moved across the Atlantic. The other one was very nice but not a man I wanted to start a relationship with.

But if you protect yourself and don't hurt anyone, why not?

Teach you DONT let them stay. Rule #1: Wham, Bam, Goobye.

lazycrockett said:

vainandy said:

99% of the men I've been with have been one night stands.

Yeah its unusual NOT to in the gay world.

Exactly. Dicks are like Lay's potato chips. You can't stop with just one.

One-nite stands are usually an anathema for the 80% of the straight community, even if they don't want to admit it...

This thread proves that many people here don't get laid that much, lol or at all...

one-nite stands can be nasty, gross and dangerous, but they can also be beautiful experiences and the ONLY way to meet a loyal, reliable and lasting sex partner...

JoeTyler said:

One-nite stands are usually an anathema for the 80% of the straight community, even if they don't want to admit it...

This thread proves that many people here don't get laid that much, lol or at all...

one-nite stands can be nasty, gross and dangerous, but they can also be beautiful experiences and the ONLY way to meet a loyal, reliable and lasting sex partner...

JoeTyler said:

One-nite stands are usually an anathema for the 80% of the straight community, even if they don't want to admit it...

This thread proves that many people here don't get laid that much, lol or at all...

one-nite stands can be nasty, gross and dangerous, but they can also be beautiful experiences and the ONLY way to meet a loyal, reliable and lasting sex partner...

um, no. respectfully disagree with that last bit there. if they are, they aren't one night standers

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JoeTyler said:

This thread proves that many people here don't get laid that much, lol or at all... That's the dumbest comment ever.

one-nite stands can be nasty, gross and dangerous, but they can also be beautiful experiences and the ONLY way to meet a loyal, reliable and lasting sex partner... Are you confused about what a one night stand is? You meet them that night, fuck them once and never see them again. What the hell does loyalty, reliability and lasting have to do with that?

With comments like that, looks like maybe you're the one not getting laid at all...?

JustErin said:

JoeTyler said:

This thread proves that many people here don't get laid that much, lol or at all... That's the dumbest comment ever.

PERHAPS

one-nite stands can be nasty, gross and dangerous, but they can also be beautiful experiences and the ONLY way to meet a loyal, reliable and lasting sex partner... Are you confused about what a one night stand is? You meet them that night, fuck them once and never see them again. What the hell does loyalty, reliability and lasting have to do with that?

well, lol ALL I SAID IS THAT ONE-NITE STANDS ARE NECESSARY IN ORDER TO GET A LASTING SEX PARTNER. CALL IT THE "FIRST STEP" IF YOU WANT TO. RE-READ MY POST.

With comments like that, looks like maybe you're the one not getting laid at all...?

AND NOW YOU'RE THE ONE WHO POSTED THE DUMB COMMENT, lol. I GET LAID WHENEVER I WANT/NEED TO (which is not THAT much cuz I'm not sex obsessed), THAT'S WHY I KEEP RELIABLE/LASTING SEX PARTNERS

XxAxX said:

JoeTyler said:

One-nite stands are usually an anathema for the 80% of the straight community, even if they don't want to admit it...

This thread proves that many people here don't get laid that much, lol or at all...

one-nite stands can be nasty, gross and dangerous, but they can also be beautiful experiences and the ONLY way to meet a loyal, reliable and lasting sex partner...

um, no. respectfully disagree with that last bit there. if they are, they aren't one night standers

[Edited 8/26/11 9:09am]

here we go again some one-nite stands CAN transform into a casual sex relationships, right? If the sex was very good that night, why should I lose the track of that possible sex partner??

I had a couple of one timers, but each guy I knew well before hand. They were "one timers" because they sucked in bed and I didn't give those guys a chance at a repeat performance.

I don't think women look for one night stands, they look for good dick and if they don't get it they move the hell on. QUICK.

If the dick is good.. I always had the guy again...and again...and again.

JoeTyler said:

JustErin said:

A one night stand is not a sex relationship. It doesn't lead to something else. It's one night, that's it.

You may have sex partners that are long lasting...but that's not what a one night stand is.

[Edited 8/26/11 10:38am]

lazycrockett said:

vainandy said:

99% of the men I've been with have been one night stands.

Yeah its unusual NOT to in the gay world.

Sorry but that is a very ignorant statement. I didn't have sex for the first time till i was 19... i'm 20 now. And it was at my bf at the time who i was in love with. I was not hooking up with all these people, and i know a few other gay guys who aren't putting there dicks and tongues in evry hole available in west hollywood.

JustErin said:

JoeTyler said:

A one night stand is not a sex relationship. It doesn't lead to something else. It's one night, that's it.

You may have sex partners that are long lasting...but that's not what a one night stand is.

[Edited 8/26/11 10:38am]

I never said that a one night stand is a long-term sexaul relationship. I said that it is (often, sometimes) the first step of a lasting sex relationship or a even a romantic relationship