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Thread started 08/24/11 10:53am

FrenchGuy

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Your opinion on one-night stands : Yay or nay?

What do you think of it as an idea, a behavior?

Ever had one? Which circumstances?

How was it?

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Reply #1 posted 08/24/11 10:56am

lazycrockett

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Why not. biggrin

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Reply #2 posted 08/24/11 10:59am

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i think it's fine.

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Reply #3 posted 08/24/11 11:03am

Ottensen

Nah. Not for me.

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Reply #4 posted 08/24/11 11:05am

Efan

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Yes, please.

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Reply #5 posted 08/24/11 11:09am

Serious

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No not for me.

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Reply #6 posted 08/24/11 11:26am

novabrkr

I was against them for a long time, but then started doing them when I was 28-29. It's hard for me to find someone that I'd be really interested in and that would be still available (especially at my age they're all raising their kids in the suburbs). If I didn't do them every now and then I guess I just wouldn't have sex at all for very long periods of time. I was also somewhat sick a while ago and just didn't feel like I could be in a proper relationship then - didn't want to force anyone else to deal with my own shit.

I've met women at clubs and I've also approached a few at public places. I answered an online dating ad once, but the chick was totally crazy.

Most of the occasions have been just okay. I've had a few embarrassing moments when I've been too drunk and haven't managed to pull off the intercourse part properly. In overall I don't find the whole thing nowhere nearly as filthy as some others seem to do. It's more about just getting to spend some time with different type of people as it just feels different to be with different type of individuals. A bit like going through different wines or enjoying different types of music, I guess.

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Reply #7 posted 08/24/11 11:47am

JustErin

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What do you think of it as an idea, a behavior? No thanks

Ever had one? Yes

Which circumstances? I was out of town and really drunk

How was it? Grosses me out to think about it now.

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Reply #8 posted 08/24/11 12:50pm

Machaela

NO. Thank. You.

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Reply #9 posted 08/24/11 12:55pm

vainandy

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99% of the men I've been with have been one night stands.

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Reply #10 posted 08/24/11 12:58pm

MacDaddy

No, not anymore.

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Reply #11 posted 08/24/11 1:03pm

tinaz

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No, not for me...

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Reply #12 posted 08/24/11 1:21pm

lazycrockett

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vainandy said:

99% of the men I've been with have been one night stands.

Yeah its unusual NOT to in the gay world.

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Reply #13 posted 08/24/11 1:38pm

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Beats a wank.

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Reply #14 posted 08/24/11 1:49pm

Lisa10

What do you think of it as an idea, a behavior? Not ideal. Not to be encouraged. I don't like the thought of people I care about shagging recklessly.

Ever had one? Which circumstances? A few actually. Because I was young and out drinking and I honestly thought that it was part of being young and having fun. confused What can I say..... I had shit role models.

How was it? Well I was always careful. i'm still alive. And I honestly thought I was having a great time back then. But now I look back to those times and shudder. I realise I didn't have much self-respect. My friend recently told me she walked past a guy I had a one-night stand with. I honestly wouldn't know him if I saw him. That's pretty shit.

On the other hand, I ended up marrying a guy who started out as a one-night stand.

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Reply #15 posted 08/24/11 4:14pm

MarySharon

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What do you think of it as an idea, a behavior? What's wrong with that if you're single, jailbait and willing.

Ever had one? Which circumstances? Had some. Never been unfaithful. I was single and bored. I suscribed to a dating site and did some shopping. I also hit on male workmates. Whenever a guy tickles my fancy I just gotta have it.

How was it? I'm lucky I never got disappointed giggle

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Reply #16 posted 08/24/11 4:44pm

JuliePurplehea
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To each their own but not for me. Never had one but I know me. I'll go all crazy bitch. I simply cannot handle it. But who knows? Maybe one day. shrug

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Reply #17 posted 08/24/11 5:44pm

dJJ

Yay ---> when bored

Nay ---> when shag with friend/ lover is an option

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Reply #18 posted 08/24/11 5:47pm

FuzzyWitch

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Nay

no

never

hmph!

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Reply #19 posted 08/24/11 5:49pm

formallypickle
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Nay for women

Yay for men

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Reply #20 posted 08/24/11 6:03pm

MarySharon

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formallypickles said:

Nay for women

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Reply #21 posted 08/24/11 6:14pm

PippiL

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NAY.

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Reply #22 posted 08/24/11 6:39pm

EmeraldSkies

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NAY hmph!

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Reply #23 posted 08/24/11 7:19pm

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Hate that next day thing........she dont look as nice in daylight...shes laying on ur arm and if u had a saw u would chop ur own arm off 2 get away from the bow wow...evillol

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Reply #24 posted 08/24/11 7:22pm

imago

I have no interest in them anymore, but I can't really predict how I'll feel a week from now falloff

I would like to have sex with Efan though. I think that would be a lot of fun, and probably kind of funny and sweet, especially if I could get him to yoddle.

But I've had a few...ok a lot...of one nighters, and a few threesomes. I don't see anything wrong in them morally---I'm just über paranoid about diseases now.

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Reply #25 posted 08/24/11 7:26pm

Fauxie

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Never had one. I guess if I were single I wouldn't be dead set against it, but I don't think that's how things would go down.

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Reply #26 posted 08/24/11 7:40pm

Cerebus

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Why would you want to stand up for a whole night? Seems terribly uncomfortable to me.

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Reply #27 posted 08/24/11 7:53pm

SexLovely

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I'd have probably cut off my rotting cock by now had I not have indulged in 1-nighters.... confused

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Does employing prostitutes count? biggrin Cuz this weekend in Amsterdam im pretty sure my friend is gonna steal my bank card and hire 1 for me.... shake

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I wish I didn't have to have the occasional 1-night experience, but some of them have been extremely fun and I've learnt a lot about myself (no, not how much lack or self-respect i have evil).......plus I'm at Uni, so fuck off! biggrin

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Reply #28 posted 08/25/11 1:53am

blackbob

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i have had them but i dont think i would be interested now...had some good but mainly bad due to alcohol and the effect it has on your judgement...

i have knocked women back in last few years who asked me to go back for a 'coffee' because i am in a relationship and i am not a cheater by choice....if i was single....i would never say i definately wouldnt but it would be unlikely..

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Reply #29 posted 08/25/11 3:48am

ZombieKitten

I never did have one, not because I was against it, just because they all came back for seconds, and thirds etc
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