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Thread started 08/15/11 7:16am

blackbob

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my girlfriend is giving me grief...my ex is giving me grief...bloody hell !

my girlfriend is moaning about working all day then watching our hyperactive 3 year old all night...' where is the life? ' she was shouting at me...then this morning i get my usual texts from my ex telling me i aint giving her enough money for my 12 year old son and i aint spending enough time with him ( funnily enough..my girlfriend says the same to me ).....then telling me i aint seeing him again...i just took my son away for a few days last week to an amusement park and spend hundreds of pounds on him...all the while worrying about having to pay the mortgage and working shifts and watching my little 3 year old daughter during the day before going to work at night...

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as i write this...my 3 year old daughter is climbing all over me fryingpan ...

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i just have one question...

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is time travel possible... confused ... wall

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Reply #1 posted 08/15/11 7:43am

whistle

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contraceptives, bob. look into them.

everyone's a fruit & nut case
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Reply #2 posted 08/15/11 7:54am

davetherave676
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Tell them both 2 fuck off open a bottle of wine get a beef curry egg fried rice sit down watch porn with a smile on ur face.......nod

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Reply #3 posted 08/15/11 7:57am

Shorty

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zipped

"not a fan" falloff yeah...ok
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Reply #4 posted 08/15/11 8:21am

PurpleJedi

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pat

The ex can just fuck off. You have a custody agreement, correct? It is what it is.

The GF needs to chill the fuck out and get real. I don't remember the details, but you posted some shit before about that, right? Not getting any better, huh?

Listen...as long as you take care of their needs and spend quality time with them to the best of your abilities, then you are doing good.

Back when I was the sole bread-winner and working 50-60 hours a week to maintain my family, the soon-to-be-ex used to bitch ALL THE TIME about me "not being home enough" and "not spending time with the kids" and "not helping around the house". So when the youngest went to school full-time and it was her turn to get a job and allow me some breathing room, it was "the kids need their momma at home" and "why can't you make enough to support us yourself" and "I miss being home all the time" and shit.

rolleyes

You can't please people all of the time dude. Make sure you do for YOU b/c at the end of the day, the long hours and sweating over bills and credit scores - none of that bullshit really matters when they decide they want "more out of life" and move on.

Just focus on your relationship with your children. THAT is what is truly important.

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Reply #5 posted 08/15/11 8:58am

dJJ

Sounds that you'r not handling it in a way that serves those involved very well.

You can't change the people around you, however, you might try to improve your own behaviour for the sake of everybody's benefit. Did you think about how you contribute yourself to these kind of stressfull situations? And did you ask people what you can do to improve the situation?

Do you get coached by a professional for managing all this?

99% of my posts are ironic. Maybe this post sides with the other 1%.
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Reply #6 posted 08/15/11 9:05am

InternationalL
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davetherave6767 said:

Tell them both 2 fuck off open a bottle of wine get a beef curry egg fried rice sit down watch porn with a smile on ur face.......nod

Lovely cool

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Reply #7 posted 08/15/11 9:06am

kimrachell

that sound so stressful! i don't know why women nag so much? my husband is working overnights from 7pm-8am in a very stressful job. i can't imagine him coming home after working his ass off all night and being a nag to him. i understand that he is doing his best, and works to take care of his family, that he needs to come home and eat a good breakfast, take a shower and sleep. i'm at home all day, so i can deal with other stuff that comes up. some women are too darn needy and full of drama.hug

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Reply #8 posted 08/15/11 9:10am

dJJ

blackbob said:

my ex telling me i aint giving her enough money for my 12 year old son and i aint spending enough time with him ( funnily enough..my girlfriend says the same to me ).....then telling me i aint seeing him again...i just took my son away for a few days last week to an amusement park and spend hundreds of pounds on him...

Is this what she understands as attention and spending money for him or do the two of you have different opinions on what kind of attention and monetary recources he needs?

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Reply #9 posted 08/15/11 9:26am

johnart

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I'm gonna try to say something supportive here.

I'm sorry the kids you made take up your time and get in the way of your mortgage payments?

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Reply #10 posted 08/15/11 9:44am

BlackAdder7

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zipped

^ that

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Reply #11 posted 08/15/11 10:02am

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I think Bob is just venting folks. I think you need to express that you are time limited and try to get that message across to your girlfriends (x and current). Get them to see you are trying, perhaps then they will be more understanding of your stance on your problems.

And if it doesn't work you could dump current girlfriend for that personal love device you tried a while back. What did you name her? giggle

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Reply #12 posted 08/15/11 10:04am

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johnart said:

I'm gonna try to say something supportive here.

I'm sorry the kids you made take up your time and get in the way of your mortgage payments?

You need to submit that to someecards. lol

I mean if he did have sex he would break every rule Jehova's have regarding premarital sex so Prince is really just friends with them all anyway.
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Reply #13 posted 08/15/11 10:04am

Machaela

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zipped

lol

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Reply #14 posted 08/15/11 10:04am

HotGritz

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Aahh the joys of part-time parenthood. lol

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Reply #15 posted 08/15/11 10:33am

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Bob i think you need a bit of me time!....to balance things out, maybe treat yourself every once in a while... wink

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Reply #16 posted 08/15/11 10:39am

MarySharon

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blackbob said:

i just have one question...

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is time travel possible... confused ... wall

Dunno. Maybe brainwashing is...

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Reply #17 posted 08/15/11 11:15am

blackbob

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Thanks for the replies...I love my kids to bits and I don't regret having them one bit...I just wish the adults could behave themselves a bit better...I am only one Guy and can't do everything...maybe I am feeling sorry for myself because I feel I have always tried my best and I just get almost constant grief for it...I miss my son but I can't do anything about it other than see him when I can...anyway....just having a rant...I feel stressed and letting off some steam.....thanks for listening...
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Reply #18 posted 08/15/11 11:19am

SexLovely

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Have an affair then escape to Panama shrug
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Reply #19 posted 08/15/11 11:20am

SexLovely

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blackbob said:

Thanks for the replies...I love my kids to bits and I don't regret having them one bit...I just wish the adults could behave themselves a bit better...I am only one Guy and can't do everything...maybe I am feeling sorry for myself because I feel I have always tried my best and I just get almost constant grief for it...I miss my son but I can't do anything about it other than see him when I can...anyway....just having a rant...I feel stressed and letting off some steam.....thanks for listening...

sad I think we all feel your pain dude. have you tried being honest with them? Cuz it seems like you're doing all you can.

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Reply #20 posted 08/15/11 11:50am

InternationalL
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blackbob said:

Thanks for the replies...I love my kids to bits and I don't regret having them one bit...I just wish the adults could behave themselves a bit better...I am only one Guy and can't do everything...maybe I am feeling sorry for myself because I feel I have always tried my best and I just get almost constant grief for it...I miss my son but I can't do anything about it other than see him when I can...anyway....just having a rant...I feel stressed and letting off some steam.....thanks for listening...

sad I'm sorry bob. I wish I could hug you, I'll give you an org hug hug

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Reply #21 posted 08/15/11 12:24pm

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SexLovely said:

Have an affair then escape to Panama shrug

I'm trying to do that myself.

...but SCNDLS isn't taking the bait...

confused

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Reply #22 posted 08/15/11 12:26pm

SexLovely

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PurpleJedi said:

SexLovely said:

Have an affair then escape to Panama shrug

I'm trying to do that myself.

...but SCNDLS isn't taking the bait...

confused

Do something they'll like, assassinate a corporate media executive or something.

"...because no-one gets there alone." - "...I like the floor. It's the only thing that seems real."
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Reply #23 posted 08/15/11 12:37pm

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SexLovely said:

PurpleJedi said:

I'm trying to do that myself.

...but SCNDLS isn't taking the bait...

confused

Do something they'll like, assassinate a corporate media executive or something.

Ahh...the old "run away with me I'm a high-profile felon now" line does the trick, eh?

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Reply #24 posted 08/15/11 12:44pm

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PurpleJedi said:

SexLovely said:

Do something they'll like, assassinate a corporate media executive or something.

Ahh...the old "run away with me I'm a high-profile felon now" line does the trick, eh?

SCNDLS will broadcast your life story and your crime all over this joint.......whilst licking the drool off their chin! wink

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Reply #25 posted 08/15/11 1:02pm

EllasFella

No one ever tells u how utterly exhausting it is having babies, well it is totally knackering!Hope things work out ok wi ur weans blackbob. Living apart from ur older child must be so difficult. But it is definitely stressful sometimes, I'm wi u 100% on that!
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Reply #26 posted 08/15/11 1:45pm

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Genesia said:

johnart said:

I'm gonna try to say something supportive here.

I'm sorry the kids you made take up your time and get in the way of your mortgage payments?

You need to submit that to someecards. lol

Wouldn't writing shit for them be like a dream-job?? love

I bet you can (hell it's probably encouraged) sit around and martini while you write for them. lol

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Reply #27 posted 08/15/11 2:58pm

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My x wife lives in same town as me she goes 2 a kingdom hall within 5mins of where eye live yet ive only seen her 3 times in 10 years......Angels protect me......clapping pray ....She wouldnt dream of hassling me...Infact eye f**king dare her!!!!!...Look after urself BlackBob....

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Reply #28 posted 08/15/11 6:03pm

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davetherave6767 said:

My x wife lives in same town as me she goes 2 a kingdom hall within 5mins of where eye live yet ive only seen her 3 times in 10 years......Angels protect me......:clap: pray ....She wouldnt dream of hassling me...Infact eye f**king dare her!!!!!...Look after urself BlackBob....

faint AND spit

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Reply #29 posted 08/15/11 6:13pm

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HotGritz said:

davetherave6767 said:

My x wife lives in same town as me she goes 2 a kingdom hall within 5mins of where eye live yet ive only seen her 3 times in 10 years......Angels protect me......:clap: pray ....She wouldnt dream of hassling me...Infact eye f**king dare her!!!!!...Look after urself BlackBob....

faint AND spit

Blackbob having trouble........women give men trouble cuz they no they can!!!!!!!!.........cuz they dare....eye would hate 2b in blackbob position.....it will never happen thats the point i was making who wants trouble from xs.....

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