Yes? No?

Would you do it? Is it dangerous? Are the cons bigger than the pros? Have you already done it?

discuss...

Never done it. I don't think I ever will

It's a win or lose situation.

If the 'relationship' goes on well, that's great, there'll be some complicity, good times... But if things go wrong (feelings getting involved, or one person get 'dumped'), it can be hell, like jealousy, unpleasant remarks.

"No twork at work"

FrenchGuy said:

Never done it. I don't think I ever will

It's a win or lose situation.

If the 'relationship' goes on well, that's great, there'll be some complicity, good times... But if things go wrong (feelings getting involved, or one person get 'dumped'), it can be hell, like jealousy, unpleasant remarks.

"No twork at work"

Yep. I pretty much think the same, unless a certain co-worker is that hot...in that situation, I'd take my chances, lol...

Often a bad idea but try telling the dick that. It has no ears.

big no.

This brings to mind the saying "Don't shit where you eat."

When I was young I did date a co-worker. For me, it ended up just fine, we've been married 22 years now, but 3 other couples did the exact same thing (we were all in Navy Corps School class together) and it ended up HORRIBLY for them.

It's like FrenchGuy said

i did once, over 20 years ago..... it was fun and ended when he got transferred to Japan

but now NO, not worth it

Nope.

I've never worked with anyone hot enough to want to have sex with them.

Bu not sure if I would or wouldn't if I were in that situation.

I'm selective, my pannies fall way too quickly... I'm selective...

I've fantasized about a teacher. That's if school counts. But at work, I never was tempted to do anything.

I have dated coworkers (just twice) - both times they were in different departments than mine; never had a problem

-- well, not me personally (as in my bosses didn't care).. but other guys who were interested in me didn't take it well when I went out with a buddy of theirs instead of them.. one guy quit his job

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Had it.

Problem was that this co-worker was an ex-co-worker's boyfriend. Didn't go over to well when it came out.

Quote from the movie "Moonstuck"

Rose Castorini: "Don't shit where you eat!"

or Origin unknown: "Don't make honey where your make money".

reasons.

1. a disagreement could occur and get out of hand

2. co-workers could get involved

3. the relationship could evolve into a sexual harassment claim

4. your work performance could be affected

5. friendly words by him/her to another employee could be misunderstood

6. if there's a breakup it could turn ugly

7. your personal business is at stake of being fodder for office gossip

no, no, no, "don't do it." be afraid. be very afraid.

but if you do, if you do, keep your mouth and hopefully your love interest will be as wise.

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Don't do it, honey.

Just don't.

There will be others, let this one go, really. No need to mess up your life for little puss.

JoeTyler said:

Yes? No?

Would you do it? Is it dangerous? Are the cons bigger than the pros? Have you already done it?

discuss...

I had an affair with someone I worked with once. BIG MISTAKE. When it was over I had to quit because the person started a vendetta against me once I ended it and did their best to make my life miserable. It was a HUGE disaster. Not to mention that people in the computer room were reading our dirty in-house emails to one another. Our code word for sex was "going to the mall" so we constantly were writing one another that "the mall was fantastic, when can we go again?" "I really need to go to the mall" "God, I love the mall" etc. Sure for awhile, until they figured it out they were thinking, "What in the fuck is so great about Oakwood mall?"

You should never dip your pen in the company ink.

done it, but would never do it again. been tempted though...

I would do it if given the opprotunity probably. Had sex with customers though..that was always intresting when they would come in to US Bank lol.

Back in my hay day I didn't giva fuck! I was fucking Co-workers, Bosses, who ever?

Especialy the married ones. They had 2 keep it on the DL because they had 2 much 2 lose.

It all caught up 2 me when I was fucking 2 managers(My Bosses) at the same time.

They both new the deal, I didn't hide anything. They were friends. We had an understanding.

Aleast that's what I thought!

Emotions kicked in, & jealous 2. Them being my boss made my life a living hell!

I thought I souled my soul 2 the devil. I've learned my lesson since then. No sex where I work or near my home. I flurt a little that it. I've turned down so much pussy at my job I think the women are starting to think I'm gay.

Almost did one, I mean real close. I was in her car ... damn, I wish I would have now.

I'm gonna give her a call tomorrow.

silkylee said:

Back in my hay day I didn't giva fuck! I was fucking Co-workers, Bosses, who ever?

Especialy the married ones. They had 2 keep it on the DL because they had 2 much 2 lose.

It all caught up 2 me when I was fucking 2 managers(My Bosses) at the same time.

They both new the deal, I didn't hide anything. They were friends. We had an understanding.

Aleast that's what I thought!

Emotions kicked in, & jealous 2. Them being my boss made my life a living hell!

I thought I souled my soul 2 the devil. I've learned my lesson since then. No sex where I work or near my home. I flurt a little that it. I've turned down so much pussy at my job I think the women are starting to think I'm gay.

Here I sit in front of my computer laughing myself to a tear. A laugh I needed.

Thx so much.

I must admit I got tempted to dos o.

75% of the staff where I work are women, some of them look hot...

I sometimes get flirty, like exchanging THOSE looks, a lot of double-entendres, and you know... You feel it, when 'it can be done'. But I never crossed the line, and I don't think I'll ever will.

What if feelings start to show and she want more but you don't??

What if you had bad sex and she gossips about it?

What if you get caught?

What if you/her/he is engaged and she/he/you confess it to the partner?

What if you actually wanna have sex with another colleague?

What if it's trap? (this happened to a freind of mine)

Be reminded that we're not talking about sex in a random hotel/place/car, etc... This is supposed to happen AT your workplace!

I just keep on fantasizing...

But hey, "accidents" happen ...

Acrylic said:

Had it.

Problem was that this co-worker was an ex-co-worker's boyfriend. Didn't go over to well when it came out.

Tht is exactly what i was talking about.

This kind of situation happend too many times, so i try to avoid.

If you work in the same department or must professionally interact with each other, then I would say NO WAY!!!! Now, if you work in IT and you want to screw the Engineer, then I'd say go ahead.

Hell no.............

Ive had same job since 1987 & sleep with co workers is all ive ever done!!!There lives r sad & full of unhappiness & no horny pony!Davetherave is a flirt & they like it!!Make them smile make them laugh nxt thing u have there mob nunber & ur good 2 go!!Ive met many nice women over 25 years eye even married one & had a son!!But if eye had my time over eye wouldnt act this way!!!!Women arnt like men!!!!!they r all mad!!barmy!!!they get jealous so quick & make ur life a misery & make u wish u hadnt started flirting in the 1st place,so my advice is a big NO!!!!.Leave them b!!!!! go home watch porn all stress free no crazy woman shit!!!!

I would if they would let me but they all have a serious illness called straight.