I you could cheat on your current partner....there is no way in hell they will ever know.....absolutely guaranteed insanely fantastic sex.....would you do it?

no.

no.

single here. but still, no.

Naw, in a committed, happy relationship, I'm all the way in it and wouldn't be even remotely interested in straying.

if he is an asshole... Yes

if he is a good man... No

No.

It's not like insanely fantastic sex is impossible with your partner.

And I have family history I would rather not follow.

Depends are we a new couple or 30 years in looking for an out?

j/k

kewlschool said:

Depends are we a new couple or 30 years in looking for an out?

j/k

hmmmm....i thought both of those are open doors

physco185 said:

if he is an asshole... Yes

if he is a good man... No

now...what if its a good man (pays the bills and shit) who is an asshole?

if he's an asshole...then leave him. and go have amazing sex.

StillGotIt said:

physco185 said:

if he is an asshole... Yes

if he is a good man... No

now...what if its a good man (pays the bills and shit) who is an asshole?

what if behind closed doors he is abusive but everyone that knows him besides his wife thinks he is great.... is that what u mean???

then yes

I prefer to dump an asshole then fuck a new lover with a clear head.

I was never married so the wait til you're divorced thing never came into play.

if i coulk find one guy i'd be happy. i'd break up b4 i got involved with another guyi

Yep.

purplemookiebut said:

if i coulk find one guy i'd be happy. i'd break up b4 i got involved with another guyi

i c u r still getting used to your new nails

physco185 said:

purplemookiebut said:

if i coulk find one guy i'd be happy. i'd break up b4 i got involved with another guyi

i c u r still getting used to your new nails

yes. i know right. every other site my spellcheck kicks in automatically. not on here. i thought i deleted the k not the d. soooo used to typing with long nails!

purplemookiebut said:

physco185 said:

i c u r still getting used to your new nails

yes. i know right. every other site my spellcheck kicks in automatically. not on here. i thought i deleted the k not the d. soooo used to typing with long nails!

lucky u have an excuse... i once typed cok instead of cook

back to the thread tho.... los of ppl cheat when they think about another person...does that count???

typo edit

[Edited 3/16/11 20:50pm]

Hell to the no. If I'm unhappy I leave. I don't play people like that.

If it was socially acceptable to have 2 husbands I would like to be a bigamist

I am too much for one man I nearly wore one down to a rubbery nub already (thanks Anxy for that expressive way of putting it )

uts not the cheating, its the residual effects.......

NO !

[Edited 3/17/11 4:50am]

No. If committed in a happy, fulfilling relationship, there would be no need to stray because you would have all that you need.

In my last relationship, I was with guy who was really nice and was into me, my family loved him but I wasn't as into him as I thought I probably should had been. He treated me well, but the relationship was draining since he was a bit needy and I wasn't getting all that I needed out of it. As a result, I started looking at other men and could see myself going out with another guy had the opportunity presented itself. Once I recognized that this was happening, I knew that our relationship had to end. Just that simple.

PANDURITO said:

NO !

[Edited 3/17/11 4:50am]

Nope. No interest.

If I wanted to “cheat” I wouldn’t be in a committed, monogamous relationship.

Nothinbutjoy said:

Thing is anyone can cheat. I choose not to.

Exactly

CarrieMpls said:

Nope. No interest.

If I wanted to “cheat” I wouldn’t be in a committed, monogamous relationship.

again ... exactly

Cheating is too easy! I like a challenge and for staying true I'm very strong at it. I will not cheat b/c I don't want to live with the guilt. If a person cheats, it's not fair to their partner or theirselves and therefore, they are not with the right person so they should leave them alone. A true soulmate is someone who protects you from harm whether it's physical, emotional, financial, etc. Someone who cheats is not protecting one's heart from getting broken therefore not the right person for you if you are cheated on or as for the the cheater-you are not protecting that person's heart anymore from getting hurt so that is not the right person for you either and how dare you be selfish to stay in a relationship. Shame on you! A person who is in a true committed relationship should be really deathly scared of loosing that person you are in love with and too scared to hurt that person b/c it would hurt you to see that person hurt. That's how it works