Man, it's too many words on that last page.

Ok this video actually mentions her pants/ass situation

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Are the words "tight clothing" in any company's policy on "inappropriate dress?"

I bet they are.

BTW I would definitely welcome such distractions in my office

Cinnie said:

Man, it's too many words on that last page.

Ok this video actually mentions her pants/ass situation

[Edited 6/7/10 17:26pm]

Oh God, her lawyer comes off as a slimball.

But seriously, I go into ANY bank in this city and any stylish banker is dressed exactly like this woman was...and there are a lot like that in this city.

JustErin said:

chocolate1 said:

And the key word there is IF. It's word against word.

For sure.

...but it certainly seems like the popular opinion is that she's full of shit, and is just an attention seeking egotistical whore that should be doing something like porn instead (cuz you know, that's the only thing really attractive women with kick ass bodies should really be doing).

Okay, THAT's not fair, but I think that she's definitely milking the attention she's receiving.

Quite honestly, she could have sued or handled it without ever talking to the media.

I heard about it first on news radio. And it was on the TV news. And it was in the papers. And it's on the Internet. If she didn't want attention, she would have declined comment.

NDRU said:

Are the words "tight clothing" in any company's policy on "inappropriate dress?"

I bet they are.

BTW I would definitely welcome such distractions in my office

Her clothes looked fitted to me, not tight.

JustErin said:

NDRU said:

Are the words "tight clothing" in any company's policy on "inappropriate dress?"

I bet they are.

BTW I would definitely welcome such distractions in my office

Her clothes looked fitted to me, not tight.

Same.

chocolate1 said:

JustErin said:

For sure.

...but it certainly seems like the popular opinion is that she's full of shit, and is just an attention seeking egotistical whore that should be doing something like porn instead (cuz you know, that's the only thing really attractive women with kick ass bodies should really be doing).

Okay, THAT's not fair, but I think that she's definitely milking the attention she's receiving.

Quite honestly, she could have sued or handled it without ever talking to the media.

I heard about it first on news radio. And it was on the TV news. And it was in the papers. And it's on the Internet. If she didn't want attention, she would have declined comment.

Sure, she could have...but honestly, why should she? She's really not doing anything wrong.

http://www.youtube.com/wa...4E#t=0m54s

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Cinnie said:

JustErin said:

Her clothes looked fitted to me, not tight.

Same.

Tight = bad tailoring

Fitted = good tailoring

JustErin said:

NDRU said:

Are the words "tight clothing" in any company's policy on "inappropriate dress?"

I bet they are.

BTW I would definitely welcome such distractions in my office

Her clothes looked fitted to me, not tight.

I saw some of both, personally

But yeah the suit--jacket & skirt--looked fine.

The ass/pants? tight. One shirt in particular, very tight.

Again, I would not have issue (depending on her behavior), she dresses nicer than most people I work with, but I'm just saying there are probably policies that mention tight clothing and some of hers was definitely tight.

JustErin said:

Cinnie said:

Same.

Tight = bad tailoring

Fitted = good tailoring

tight = tacky/no job

fitted = taking time to look appropriate/employed

I still say, if it doesn't fit right don't wear it to work.

And if she was doing nothing wrong, then she could've handled her business without soaking up all the attention. We would not have known WHAT she was wearing if she wasn't everywhere talking about it.

spelling edit

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"I'm too sexy for this job, too sexy for my job

I'm too sexy for this work, So sexy it hurts!"

chocolate1 said:

JustErin said:

Tight = bad tailoring

Fitted = good tailoring

tight = tacky/no job

fitted = taking time to look appropriate/employed

I still say, if it doesn't fit right don't wear it to work.

And if she was doing nothing wrong, then she could've handled her business without soaking up all the attention. We would not have know WHAT she was wearing if she wasn't everywhere talking about it.

This thread is how many pages? I think the ones really doing all the talking about it is us.

chocolate1 said:

We would not have known WHAT she was wearing if she wasn't everywhere talking about it.

There are a couple extra examples of what she wore to work on that video I posted above on this most recent page.

She's dope

JustErin said:

chocolate1 said:

tight = tacky/no job

fitted = taking time to look appropriate/employed

I still say, if it doesn't fit right don't wear it to work.

And if she was doing nothing wrong, then she could've handled her business without soaking up all the attention. We would not have know WHAT she was wearing if she wasn't everywhere talking about it.

This thread is how many pages? I think the ones really doing all the talking about it is us.

I thought about that!

I'm going to bed in a little bit... I have to go lay out my clothes for work tomorrow...

Good night!

Cinnie said:

chocolate1 said:

We would not have known WHAT she was wearing if she wasn't everywhere talking about it.

There are a couple extra examples of what she wore to work on that video I posted above on this most recent page.

She's dope

BBD is dope

Debrahlee is dope

She's got a slammin' body so if she wears a pencil skirt and turtleneck it looks hot and ppl look at her, whereas a girl without her curves in the same attire doesn't look as hot and ppl don't stare as much or not at all. It's discrimination.

Fauxie said:

She's got a slammin' body so if she wears a pencil skirt and turtleneck it looks hot and ppl look at her, whereas a girl without her curves in the same attire doesn't look as hot and ppl don't stare as much or not at all. It's discrimination.

Indeed.

Cinnie said:

Man, it's too many words on that last page.

Ok this video actually mentions her pants/ass situation

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That black fitted dress was a little too over the top for a professional business woman. That is a dress for "the club" or some other non work related event. Women should dress with maturity and professionalizm.

Reel said:

Cinnie said:

Man, it's too many words on that last page.

Ok this video actually mentions her pants/ass situation

[Edited 6/7/10 17:26pm]

That black fitted dress was a little too over the top for a professional business woman. That is a dress for "the club" or some other non work related event. Women should dress with maturity and professionalizm.

I didn't see any outfit in that vid that I thought was over-the-top. I think I saw the black fitted dress you're talking about. She looks really good in it, probably better than the majority of women who might wear it. I don't see that as a reason not to wear it. It's nice to look good.

Fauxie said:

Reel said:

That black fitted dress was a little too over the top for a professional business woman. That is a dress for "the club" or some other non work related event. Women should dress with maturity and professionalizm.

I didn't see any outfit in that vid that I thought was over-the-top. I think I saw the black fitted dress you're talking about. She looks really good in it, probably better than the majority of women who might wear it. I don't see that as a reason not to wear it. It's nice to look good.

It was a nice dress but the context in which she was wearing it was definitely not appropriate. That dress is not for work, any professional would know that. You are at work to do a job, not to showcase your "assets". You should be looking respectable, and you should serve as a representative of the company that you work for. If she was in fact a business banker, she likely met with clients. I would not want an employee to look like she was about to go to "the club" while she is representing my company with my clients. I think Citibank did the right thing by addressing the matter with her. I am unsure about all of the real reasons for her being fired. As a woman, I take offense when men look at my breast and my ass, so I definitely would not be dressing that way in a place of business. It has nothing to do with female hating co-workers, it has to do with self respect in my opinion. I don't want to be looked at like "a piece of meat". Women have fought too hard and too long to be respected as equals. I have yet to see a man come to work with his "jewels" intentionally visible.

I don't see anything wrong with anything thing she wore . the black dress was kinda tight fitted and I agree inappropriate for a professional setting but not for the club either

Reel said:

Cinnie said:

Man, it's too many words on that last page.

Ok this video actually mentions her pants/ass situation

[Edited 6/7/10 17:26pm]

That black fitted dress was a little too over the top for a professional business woman. That is a dress for "the club" or some other non work related event. Women should dress with maturity and professionalizm.

I didn't think it was was. Her body is just amazing, so naturally people are going to look.

Cinnie said:

Man, it's too many words on that last page.

Ok this video actually mentions her pants/ass situation

[Edited 6/7/10 17:26pm]

at the lawyer. He is the wrong dude for this case. Is she paying him in installments?

She ought to come to LA. She will be on the plain side and no one will bother her but she will still get paid.

450 ccs

heybaby said:

I don't see anything wrong with anything thing she wore . the black dress was kinda tight fitted and I agree inappropriate for a professional setting but not for the club either

I do... the turtle neck for example. It looks nice, fitted... but add the wrong bra that has her nipples poking through the fabric then it becomes wrong for the work place. IF she wore a bra at all.

The trousers... fitted as well, but if she's twitching hard as she walks by, then its a distraction and over the top. A mean walk can be a distraction also, never mind adding to that fitted clothing that amplifies a gorgeous figure.

I believe the problem probrably has more to do with her attitude and how her slamming body wears in those office clothes that may make someone stare a bit too long.

I am guessing of course, but she did say that this happens at ALL her places of employment which leads me to think its more her than her employer IMHO.

Heck, they can't ALL be wrong.

I had nipple problems w/ AC in the summer. I have big tits too, and fat or thin, you have to wear the right under garmets to keep the girls under control. I know you feel me.

Oh, and I am not hating (not posed to you, just others that might think I'm dogging Ms. Sexy)... I was lucky enough to work at a store that had mirrors every where, when I saw my own nipples poking through shirts, bra sillouettes. This caused me to tone down my own over all look. I bet if she worked in a room full of mirrors she would see what others see and understand what to do, and what NOT to wear.

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Can anyone befriend this woman on FB and tell her to join the Org please!

chocolate1 said:

^^ I totally agree.

Using myself as an example...

I have a big butt, so I turn around after I get dressed and make sure that I don't become a teenage boy's fantasy when I leave the house.

I was never conscious of it until a few years ago, when a couple of former students (in their 20s) came to visit me and they were "reminiscing" about how much they loved when I turned around to write on the board!

Now I wear long jackets or don't tuck my shirt in when the pants cling too much.

Whether we like it or not, we need to be mindful of the image we convey through our clothes.

All I got from this chick in the article is that we shouldn't bother to teach young girls that they need to dress appropriately in school- and later in the workplace. We can just wear what we want, and all we have to do is SUE if someone says something to us about it.

First off

1. They told you they would gaze upon your booty? Wow

2. We're gonna need pictures to decide if this is true

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JustErin said:

Cinnie said:

Man, it's too many words on that last page.

Ok this video actually mentions her pants/ass situation

[Edited 6/7/10 17:26pm]

Oh God, her lawyer comes off as a slimball.

But seriously, I go into ANY bank in this city and any stylish banker is dressed exactly like this woman was...and there are a lot like that in this city.

Definitely. He seems like the kind of guy who'd take any kind of "payment" for his services

heybaby said:

I don't see anything wrong with anything thing she wore . the black dress was kinda tight fitted and I agree inappropriate for a professional setting but not for the club either

Like I said, go to any bank or office around the city and you'll see women dressed like this - of all shapes and sizes.

When I was in a more professional setting I dressed like this. It’s my style, it’s how I dress and it’s definitely professional.