OMG I've just kicked my lodger out!

Ok there have been cash flow issues ever since he moved in. His mobile phone got disconnected, his car got clamped because he hadn't paid the tax. Fair enough I thought monetary issues ra ra ra.....

Anyway couple of weeks ago bailiff notices came through the door. Call me inconsiderate but that is not on. I spoke to him seriously about it but he was so lassai faire. Like it didn't matter. I said to him then Are there any other debts?, Anything I don't know about? No he said. No credit cards no overdrafts

Brown envelope this morning. 'What's that? I say. OVERDRAFT!!!! he says from a previous address.

I'm sorry but that is it. A friend of mine came over and we kicked him out. I feel awful.

is his account all paid up with you?

soulyacolia said:

Ok there have been cash flow issues ever since he moved in. His mobile phone got disconnected, his car got clamped because he hadn't paid the tax. Fair enough I thought monetary issues ra ra ra.....

Anyway couple of weeks ago bailiff notices came through the door. Call me inconsiderate but that is not on. I spoke to him seriously about it but he was so lassai faire. Like it didn't matter. I said to him then Are there any other debts?, Anything I don't know about? No he said. No credit cards no overdrafts

Brown envelope this morning. 'What's that? I say. OVERDRAFT!!!! he says from a previous address.

I'm sorry but that is it. A friend of mine came over and we kicked him out. I feel awful.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

soulyacolia said:

Ok there have been cash flow issues ever since he moved in. His mobile phone got disconnected, his car got clamped because he hadn't paid the tax. Fair enough I thought monetary issues ra ra ra.....

Anyway couple of weeks ago bailiff notices came through the door. Call me inconsiderate but that is not on. I spoke to him seriously about it but he was so lassai faire. Like it didn't matter. I said to him then Are there any other debts?, Anything I don't know about? No he said. No credit cards no overdrafts

Brown envelope this morning. 'What's that? I say. OVERDRAFT!!!! he says from a previous address.

I'm sorry but that is it. A friend of mine came over and we kicked him out. I feel awful.

im looking for a new flat...

He owes me £200ish which I don't give a flying fuck about to be honest. I can afford to stay where I am on my own. The idea was to take a bit of pressure off me financially, have some company and so on.

There was no written agreement so he has no leg to stand on as far as the rozzers are concerned he was stopping here for a few weeks until he sorted himself out.

I have lost afriend though and thats a shame but I can't share a house with someone I don't trust.

Bottom fuckin line.

BlackAdder7 said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

im looking for a new flat...

the guy JUST moved out!....holy toledo

ya you don't want to share any accounts with your man and stuff with all that shit i don't trust no man
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

BlackAdder7 said:

the guy JUST moved out!....holy toledo

well I could use a place to stay

soulyacolia said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

well I could use a place to stay

Ha de fuckin ha ha ha!!! There is a serious problem here!!

BlackAdder7 said:

soulyacolia said:

Ha de fuckin ha ha ha!!! There is a serious problem here!!

please allow me to apologize for my fellow orger Supa. He did not realize the implication of his making light of your situation, and he feels especially remorseful.

don't trust these nigga's with your back acocunts and your money

That's such a difficult position to be put in, but you did the right thing. Try not to feel bad about it.

It was not you being mean, it was you keeping yourself secure and there is nothing wrong with that. You even tried to discuss it with him and he was not forthright, so yeah, you had to get him out of their.

So much could have gone horribly wrong for you financially if he'd decided that since he was close to you and your financial documents are right there...easy to steal your identity and drag you into his mess.

Sorry you're distressed about it though.

Nothinbutjoy said:

That's such a difficult position to be put in, but you did the right thing. Try not to feel bad about it.

It was not you being mean, it was you keeping yourself secure and there is nothing wrong with that. You even tried to discuss it with him and he was not forthright, so yeah, you had to get him out of their.

So much could have gone horribly wrong for you financially if he'd decided that since he was close to you and your financial documents are right there...easy to steal your identity and drag you into his mess.

Sorry you're distressed about it though.

soulyacolia said:

BlackAdder7 said:

please allow me to apologize for my fellow orger Supa. He did not realize the implication of his making light of your situation, and he feels especially remorseful.

He could say that for himself! But thanks!

Nothinbutjoy said:

That's such a difficult position to be put in, but you did the right thing. Try not to feel bad about it.

It was not you being mean, it was you keeping yourself secure and there is nothing wrong with that. You even tried to discuss it with him and he was not forthright, so yeah, you had to get him out of their.

So much could have gone horribly wrong for you financially if he'd decided that since he was close to you and your financial documents are right there...easy to steal your identity and drag you into his mess.

Sorry you're distressed about it though.

soulyacolia said:

Nothinbutjoy said:

That's such a difficult position to be put in, but you did the right thing. Try not to feel bad about it.

It was not you being mean, it was you keeping yourself secure and there is nothing wrong with that. You even tried to discuss it with him and he was not forthright, so yeah, you had to get him out of their.

So much could have gone horribly wrong for you financially if he'd decided that since he was close to you and your financial documents are right there...easy to steal your identity and drag you into his mess.

Sorry you're distressed about it though.

Who wouldn't be distressed?