Essential Traits of a Life Partner?

What are the essential traits of a life partner?
And has your opinion changed over time?

Strength and Kindness

johnart said:

THERE IS NOTHING BUT THE VOID

- Don't complain about stuff more than I do. Because if you really do, then you have serious problems.

- Faux-intellectualism or leading an "alternative lifstyle" only on the surface level is a turn-off. It's hard not to be hypocritical in regards with your own values sometimes, but just wearing a lot of green does not make you ecologically aware.

- Be prepared that your future husband might end up living on unemployment fees and even welfare checks from time to time. If that hurts your pride, then I am hardly the guy you would expect to offer you financial security. I really can't tell how much money I am going to be making in 5-10 years of time - I just can't tell under these circumstances.

- Dress up more femininely than I do, because I am still fundamentally materialistic and superficial like that.

- Please do dare to make up a joke sometimes, and don't just laugh at mine.

- Don't get too shocked if I can't get it up anymore after a night out involving alcohol consumption.

- Irrational crying, tantrums and moodiness is perfectly allowed from time to time, even expected. No robots for me please (unless you're a really hot robot).

- Don't complain about the synths.

- Drive your own damn car.

Needless to say, I haven't found the right one! I'm so going to die alone.
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sorry, im bored
Honesty, compassion, loyalty.

Manners. I don't appreciate rude people.

Sense of humor. Cliche, yes, but truly essential. I like to laugh.

Compatible taste in music. I know some find this odd but I can make up whatever rules I want.

Compassion and kindness. Johnart mentioned kindness and I totally agree. This is more than behaving politely but truly wishing others well. I can't be with an angry person or anyone who believes were all out for ourselves.

Loyalty and devotion. To me. Forsaking all others who wish to bone them and who they may secretly wish to bone. This is not negotiable.

a nice house a few doors up

no snoring

being home in the evenings

friendly and cuddly

loves to joke around and laugh

must love animals and babies and sci-fi movies

must clean up after himself because he knows that leaving the mess for me to clean up builds resentment over time

must like spicy food

Become a fan of the master's band!
http://www.facebook.com/maniccity

someone i know is here to stay. i never proceed into relationships until i get that feeling from the person.

someone who will not:

1. dig in their nose or butt
2. burp or fart in front of guest


but who will:

1. clean the bathroom
2. let the toilet seat down
3. love your mother

If you have to do something kicking and screaming and tearing down others with your "self love" words- maybe you shouldn't be doing it in the first place.

Evvy said:

Confidence
Humour
Respects others

That's it really.

Kind
Open-minded
Honest
Easy going
Knowledgeable
Fun
Responsible

Imago said:

novabrkr said:

oh, and they must respect animals. I couldn't date someone who hunted, for example.
If they weren't vegetarian I don't think that would be a deal breaker, but I definitely wouldn't put up with someone commenting on how much they love steak every time I made a tofu dish.
And I'm never cooking meat. So they had better be open to whatever I'm making for dinner or make their own.

trust and honesty are key butt then again ..soo overrated in these days and times when yall cant even trust your bank no more..finanshiall crises is hittin the country like a mawfugga.

I for one think that having the same SEXUAL interest is key..

if yall cant get your freak on in an adequate manner than fuckk it. why waste time wiht a so so partner when you could be sexxing much hotter wiht someone much hotter ? also..if she aint got the understanding for my innner DESIRES and YEARNINGS and if she underestimate daily TEMPTASHIONS then she better find some other mofo out there ...ha ha ah aha ha ha
cuz life is all about LOVE and understanding ....EAch other ....

its some universal shitt im talking abuot ...not no selfish love,.no

obsessive shitt aint part of my game.

some of yall know there aint no shame in my game...so the females better deal with it and reap the rewards of theyre tolearance cuz that s what they getting..some good ol luvin, some good old sexxin.... not no hypocrit shitt.ha hahha ha cuz thats what im all about



I m learning that havin a big dick is cool for the lady to see, to play with, and to brag about her man to her friends,,,, W hen it actually comes down to sexx I think the majority likke average.

This board has kind of opened my mind to that.

Now there are some girls that just love big cock for everything, butt majority like avg butt MOST chickss almos always LOVE girth ha ha ha

makes me think of how some girls love huge penises but when it comes down to it

there's still alot of the penis that goes un-used ha take into account that the vagina is an incredibly elastic part of the female anatomy. So, YES, when thers nothing in there, it may only be about 4 inches.... but that dont mean that 4 inches is the maximum amount of penis that can be inserted, and it certainly doesn't mean that 4 inches feel good.

does thhe combination of Jagermaster and Red Bull really affect your sexxing?

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that s just part of me...the fabric of my idenity.


and probly share my fondness of



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typo edit
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Fury said:

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CarrieMpls said:

oh, and they must respect animals. I couldn't date someone who hunted, for example.
If they weren't vegetarian I don't think that would be a deal breaker, but I definitely wouldn't put up with someone commenting on how much they love steak every time I made a tofu dish.
And I'm never cooking meat. So they had better be open to whatever I'm making for dinner or make their own.

I'll steal the first two from Dan...
* Some direction in life.
* What comes out of your mouth and your actions better match.

Also...
* Balance of confidence and humility. A complete self-loather/doubter or an arrogant S.O.B.: Two sides of a coin I could forever do without.
* A compatible spirituality. Not necessarily identical, but compatible.
* Some attractiveness. Needn't be conventional, but at least turn me on.
* Hunger to learn.
* Charitability.
* A sense of aesthetic. Whether it be the color of bath towels you buy, or the atmosphere of romance we create, at least care enough that not everything is a mere incidental.
* Love me in return.

Imago said:

johnart said:

Imago said:

3. Make an effort. A handwritten note on the bed or kitchen counter saying 'xxx 000' for no reason whatsoever is far more important to me than good sex or physical chemistry. If all I wanted was good sex, I'd just call johnart up.

Not to toot my own horn (tho if I could I might not need a partner ) but I give both.
I sent the hubby a short midday text yesterday saying "Love you. Hope your day is going ok" just cause I knew he was gonna be dealing with some stressful stuff at work.

CarrieMpls said:

THERE IS NOTHING BUT THE VOID

RudyIsBackForGood said:

johnart said:

Not to toot my own horn (tho if I could I might not need a partner ) but I give both.
I sent the hubby a short midday text yesterday saying "Love you. Hope your day is going ok" just cause I knew he was gonna be dealing with some stressful stuff at work.

youre one funny mofo up in this bitch ha ha ha ahha ha ha I likke your style..

did you know that Ron Jeremy used to be able to suck his own dick when he was in his prime ?
he´s got a teacher´s license, too.

johnart said:

Imago said:

3. Make an effort. A handwritten note on the bed or kitchen counter saying 'xxx 000' for no reason whatsoever is far more important to me than good sex or physical chemistry. If all I wanted was good sex, I'd just call johnart up.

Not to toot my own horn (tho if I could I might not need a partner ) but I give both.
I sent the hubby a short midday text yesterday saying "Love you. Hope your day is going ok" just cause I knew he was gonna be dealing with some stressful stuff at work.

THERE IS NOTHING BUT THE VOID

CarrieMpls said:

oh, and they must respect animals. I couldn't date someone who hunted, for example.
If they weren't vegetarian I don't think that would be a deal breaker, but I definitely wouldn't put up with someone commenting on how much they love steak every time I made a tofu dish.
And I'm never cooking meat. So they had better be open to whatever I'm making for dinner or make their own.

THERE IS NOTHING BUT THE VOID

CarrieMpls said:

THERE IS NOTHING BUT THE VOID

They should be:

Financially stable & independant
Tidy!
Not jealous and not a flirt
Decent IQ and high EQ
Take care of their appearance & not overweight
A positive mature character, no tempers,tantrums or manipulation
No heavy use of any mind altering substance
Not dominant or submissive - a good middle road
He cannot be an atheist

I had better stop there...the list might get longer

Bohemian67 said:

They should be:

Financially stable & independant
Tidy!
Not jealous and not a flirt
Decent IQ and high EQ
Take care of their appearance & not overweight
A positive mature character, no tempers,tantrums or manipulation
No heavy use of any mind altering substance
Not dominant or submissive - a good middle road
He cannot be an atheist

I had better stop there...the list might get longer

RudyIsBackForGood said:

Bohemian67 said:

They should be:

Financially stable & independant
Tidy!
Not jealous and not a flirt
Decent IQ and high EQ
Take care of their appearance & not overweight
A positive mature character, no tempers,tantrums or manipulation
No heavy use of any mind altering substance
Not dominant or submissive - a good middle road
He cannot be an atheist

I had better stop there...the list might get longer

whyy not ? why you discrimiatingf?