If you've succumbed to the goodies and found yourself in a relationship totally worthless except for the sex, then how did you manage to come to your senses? Why do people get whipped in the first place? What happened to mind over matter? Have you ever laid it on someone so good and been impressed with yourself? I think it may be uncontrollable. You never know if you're going to get a really good one or a really bad one or give a good/bad one for that matter.

Let's discuss....


















[Edited 8/6/09 14:01pm]

Ok well i'll admit. An ex boyfriend laid the pipe on me too well.
Our relationship was dumb as fuck but when it came to sex,
Now i dont want to say i was whipped, but his sex was something that was hypnotizing. He was crazy as hell. I mean crazy like "steph, im gonna marry u and u gonna have all my babies and u better not say no" type. "Girl, I called yo phone..sent u an email..called yo mama's job and ur grandmama's church. Where the hell are u" psychotic! And maybe thats why his sex was so good.

I came to my senses and left his Norman Bates ass when someone else came along and put it on me even better!

DanceWme said:

now that's what I'm talking about!

Seems like a case of mind winning over matter. You got over the good sex by realizing he was a bit psycho and you gave another a try and voila, spell is broken.

I think when someone is dick whipped or pussy whipped they allow themselves to be played and taken advantage of. The sex becomes what binds you to that person and blinds you to all their faults and unhealthy traits. Maybe you start behaving in a way you wouldn't normally behave if the sex was just so so.

How can you start a thread like this without posting this?

AlexdeParis said:

Ohhhh hell yes! Dude had skillzzzz. I still love him but I stay away.

Long story short, I had two of his kids, he ruined my life because he is a shiftless bum, although I have no regrets because he gave me two beautiful kids and some fond memories the most explosive multiple orgasms. He made me crave him so much, I used to wake him up and greeted him after work everyday with a BJ (some days I would suck him off all day until he begged me to stop because he would be so sore). I loved drinking his semen.

NEVER AGAIN! :he f**ked up a good thing:

...well...I proposed to my wife 'cuz I couldn't imagine what we had ever ending. Yes, the sex. ('course the kids took care of THAT foolish notion!)

Seriously tho' - one of my relatives is a 40-something divorcee...she's a professional, attractive, no-nonsense woman who is now dating a bullshitting loser living with mom and not a dime to his name. Yeah, she is WHIPPED.

Many, many, many years ago. I'll never forget him, old high school flame. A couple of somebody's came along that preoccupied my time enough till I just let go of the craziness.

paintedlady said:

my friend was pistol whipped by a cop once.

DanceWme said:

Yeah um see um, he had mean tongue as well.....

paintedlady said:

No, just NO.

Yes.

paintedlady said:

i didnt wanna know all of that I have seen dude. lol.

Ok I have whipped a couple dudes and have been whipped myself. I think the universe was playing sex karma with me for awhile.

I think the sad part about being whipped is that either you or the other person get made a fool of to a certain extent and of course the relationship is nothing but sex. When you're not having sex you're probably arguing over some dumb ass shit. Now if we can manage to get whipped by someone who is actually good for us and we are for them, then by all means let the whippings commence.

NMuzakNSoul said:

say what??? her man wudn't foine?

funkpill said:

so what's that now? You were whipped that bad huh?

I've been in both situations, as whip-per and whip-pee. But I never found myself where it was completely worthless. There's always been a little shred thread of something there to connect us. Even if the person got on my last nerve. There could always be a laugh shared, a mutual goal to strive for...at least until the sex died and I wanted to smack them in the head with a skillet

SCNDLS said:

Why am I thinking of Dazz Band's Let It Whip. And followed by Devo's Whip It.


Ok we need more men stories. I know there's more org dudes out there who have once been feigning hard for the sex from some no good so and so whom they used to love/like a whole lot.

God, no.

I think I'll plead the 5th on this one!
[Edited 8/6/09 15:55pm]

chocolate1 said:

Aw now come on...it's confession time on the org!

DesireeNevermind said:

Let's just say I THOUGHT I knew what good was...
DAMN!
Sometimes my mind (still) wanders and I'm like, "How the HELL can one man put it on ya like THAT?!" When we broke up, my first thought was, "Does that mean NO MORE?!"
I felt like, "We don't have to talk, U don't even have to like me anymore. Just come by and hook a sista up!"

chocolate1 said:

Now see I've been there...but the attitude keeps me away. I hate when they KNOW they got the good dick!!!

DesireeNevermind said:

Oh, I never SAID it! I was just thinkin' it.
That stuff was CRACK!

chocolate1 said:

chocolate1 said:

Now that's the only pipe worth getting adDICKted too.