CarrieLee said:

Sowhat said:

Being a man, I am very offended by this comment. In fact, I just might have the nerve to fly out there and sweep you off your feet and show you how absolutely wrong you are.....right after I make an excuse to tell my wife why I have to leave town!

I'd rather take my chances then be single all my life.

I'm a firm believer in steak and blowjobs, it'll keep a man around for a while.

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Sowhat said:

CarrieMpls said:

I believe people shouldn’t make commitments they have no intention of keeping, or for that matter simply don’t think they can keep.

I believe once you’ve made a commitment to someone you should honor that commitment and talk to them first when 1 or 5 or 15 years down the road you discover you’re not going to be able to keep it.

I believe very, very few men are capable of the above when it comes to sex, so I’ll likely remain single for the rest of my life.

Being a man, I am very offended by this comment. In fact, I just might have the nerve to fly out there and sweep you off your feet and show you how absolutely wrong you are.....right after I make an excuse to tell my wife why I have to leave town!

PunkMistress said:

Something like that...all trust is gone.
If a gun wasn't put to your head to force u into anything...it's over.
I can forgive over-time, but trust never comes back.
Without trust, a relationship makes no sense.

I can't deal wit being paranoid about if u really going where u say u're going etc...
I'll be miserable in my paranoia, therefore makin u miserable wit my constant interrogation...
not a relationship worth stayin in at all imo.

thekidsgirl said:

Ace said:

You ALWAYS say that! Well, this time, flowers and sweet-talk aren't gonna cut it! ...The fucking nerve!

So what are you saying?!! Are you leaving me?!

"Always blessings, never losses......"

Ya te dije....no manches guey!!!!!

I'm a guy!!!!

Mach said:

johnart said:

Your wisdom is as big as your chest.

*flashes boobs*

CHEATER

i have two rules...

No dates, No sleeping next to someone other than me.

One thing I love about the org...from time to time we get a thread that makes us think.

Absofuckinglutely deal breaker , not acceptable in any way shape or form .

Maybe Im just old fashioned but if you gonna put it around elsewhere at least have the decency and honesty not to mention respect for your partner to break it off with them first

If any one of my parents had affairs then it up to them to forgive or not. What transpires in their relationship is none of my business. If they get divorced because of it, I'm sure there were more issues involved than just the cheating. What they do with their lives ... they do with their lives. I have mine to live.

Ace said:

CarrieMpls said:

I believe people shouldn’t make commitments they have no intention of keeping, or for that matter simply don’t think they can keep.

This reminded me of that great Pauline Kael quotation that Springsteen used in the song "Over the Rise":

Is a promise that love couldn't keep
Same as a promise broken?

But, I digress.

I believe once you’ve made a commitment to someone you should honor that commitment and talk to them first when 1 or 5 or 15 years down the road you discover you’re not going to be able to keep it.

I believe very, very few men are capable of the above when it comes to sex, so I’ll likely remain single for the rest of my life.

I would have to agree.

Men are pussies.

dseann said:

Ace said:

God DAMN there are a lot of dumb motherfuckers walking around! - George Carlin
Stalkerwomen of the world unite in delusion!!!!!

And to answer the question: Cheating is the dealbreaker for me. There is no second chance.

If another woman decides she wants to forgive her man, good on her.

In the case of the governor that got caught cheating, I think in his particular case, his wife is a stupid bitch. You are not going to ask me if you can go to Argentina to be with your side piece.

God DAMN there are a lot of dumb motherfuckers walking around! - George Carlin
Stalkerwomen of the world unite in delusion!!!!!

thekidsgirl said:

PunkMistress said:

For me, it would be the fuckery more than the dishonesty.

The idea of my husband touching someone else makes me fucking CRAYZAY , way more than the idea of him lying to me. I mean, the lying doesn't sound so hot either. But the cheating itself is definitely what would make me burn this motherfucker down.

but if he comes to you and tells you that he has been feeling drawn to Sue the secretary before hand, you all can try to work things out together rather than him, just getting busy with her and trying to hide it

It depends on the understanding they have with their s.o. If both people are on the same page (e.g. open relationship, what constitutes "cheating", etc.) then I don't think they can be upset if the other one has an affair. (Is it called an affair if you know about it, or is an affair always carried out secretly?)

For me, personally, it's a dealbreaker, and I make that 100% clear from the beginning.

MoniGram said:

thekidsgirl said:

Sowhat said:

CarrieMpls said:

I believe people shouldn’t make commitments they have no intention of keeping, or for that matter simply don’t think they can keep.

I believe once you’ve made a commitment to someone you should honor that commitment and talk to them first when 1 or 5 or 15 years down the road you discover you’re not going to be able to keep it.

I believe very, very few men are capable of the above when it comes to sex, so I’ll likely remain single for the rest of my life.

Being a man, I am very offended by this comment. In fact, I just might have the nerve to fly out there and sweep you off your feet and show you how absolutely wrong you are.....right after I make an excuse to tell my wife why I have to leave town!

CarrieLee said:

Sowhat said:

Being a man, I am very offended by this comment. In fact, I just might have the nerve to fly out there and sweep you off your feet and show you how absolutely wrong you are.....right after I make an excuse to tell my wife why I have to leave town!

I'd rather take my chances then be single all my life.

I'm a firm believer in steak and blowjobs, it'll keep a man around for a while.


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Cheating is not a deal breaker for me, but the aftermath of dealing with one person's dishonesty (over anything) is what usually tears two people apart. I just would find it hard to not be suspicious of him, I mean that 'what if' is always there in a relationship, but the 'what if again' is much harder to get past.

But him fucking someone else, I could get over that.


And it really depends on the way the relationship was going before the infidelity. I do think some couples can move past cheating.

JustErin said: