Imago said:

For better or worse, this is the trait I relate to most.

Cinnie said:

He's very magnetic. It's funny I've never been charmed by his spell. You should come out to Amsterdam to meetup with us this winter. You can laugh your asses off at Tim and I recounting stories about how we used to go around the various Air Force bases in the region snapping photos of all the women he'd slept with.

Cinnie said:

You agreed with my generalization on bi men but not on my generalization about gay men being complete nympho maniac sluts?

Imago said:

Sometimes the truth hurts

Cinnie said:

And just because you now know Blake claimed to be 'bi' doesn't mean you can try and win him over like Herman and Anx have been doing.

Imago said:

I haven't added Blake on Facebook, just to save myself from temptation and deliver me from evil.

Cinnie said:

Imagine knocking on his dorm door early one morning to find him wearing only boxers, his soft white skin glowing in the pale blue morning light with his grey blue eyes looking at you as if he's seeing through you as if to say... "Dude, not now. I'm about to have sex with some circus freak I brought home last night...."

Imago said:

Even the circus freak part gave me a chubby

Imago said:

ok red shoe diarys! thats enough!...until you fill me in on who yall talkin bout

There is such thing as bisexual....that means you like both...it means gay too....you like both sexes. If people wan to be called bi..good for them.

Christopher said:

Here he is in my door room. This was 1993.





The battlestar galactica outfit was not what he usual wore. We played dressup that day and invaded the Officer's club for "country Music" night


BTW, this is a very unflattering picture of him. He's actually quite handsome.

Depends, all peeps are different and have their reasons so to each their own. One of my bi friends once said some days he feels like eating fish and other days like having a hot dog.

Interesting read.

I do not have the scientific knowledge to either confirm or debunk the statements that were made in the article.

But what interests me the most is why do most people always feel the need to label someone. I personally think that if we are not able to immediately know where to place someone, that person scares us. Because then it becomes unknown territory. And that might become confronting in a way, or expose an aspect of our sexuality/personality we don’t want to see uncovered.

I would say that I’m definitely a gay guy although I do not have the stereotypical mannerisms that many people think are part of being gay.
But fuck that, I’m proud of who I am and VERY comfortable with my sexuality.

I have had sex with men who claim to be bi, some of them really were some of them might not have been. I’ve had sex with straight men, those were very close friends of mine so I know that they really are ‘straight’ or as straight as can be as perceived by the masses.

They would for instance never fall in love with a guy or have a relationship, or whathaveyou… the fact that they have had sex with a guy did not make them a lesser MAN (in their own view) they were curious and pleased with the experience. There was nothing more to it.

Anyhow: a person’s sexuality or sexuality in general is very complex and consists of many different layers. You yourself know best what to do or what not to do with it.

Ta

MacDaddy said:

100% agreed.

The term "bi" also gets you laid. (with other men)
It's like some exciting token dudes throw around when lookin for casual male tricks. It' somehow "ups" their desirablility.

Don't believe me? Look around Craigslist sometime.
There's prolly more folk looking for "straights" "bi's" "military" "married" dudes in there than anything else.
IMO went it's all said and done and the dick is swangin in front of your face, the dudes looking really don't care what the actual bottom line is. It fulfills a fantasy to think (or be told) the other dude is bi or straight, or something "unnatainable" that makes it risky and secret. Sets a mood.

johnart said:

Half the time "we're" are own worse enemy.

johnart said:

It feels less like a sexual fantasy to me and more like self-loathing.
A lot of gay men I've known like me because I have masculine traits, and they are drawn to that. But they themselves are mostly feminine. It seems really weird that a feminine man is repulse by feminine men. It seems self-loathing. But I see it all the time.

Imago said:

But for a lot of guys it IS a sexual fantasy and has nothing to do with self-loathing.

I have no reason whatsoever to loath myself, never had issues with being gay and I intend never to have any. I can see why sometimes it does appeal to have sex with a bi, or straight guy, purely because of a fantasy, whatever the reason behind it. And I've been there, enjoyed it, that's it.

But what works for me is a guy confident about his sexuality, whether he's straight, bi or gay and doesn't give a rat's arse what other people think about it....feminine or masculine. That's what's attractive (for me at-least) and I have noticed that those guys often also find themselves attracted to me.

MacDaddy said:

I find it very interesting that you've slept with straight guys that you agree were straight. I'm curious to know, in your opinion, when would you stop viewing these "straight" dudes as straight?

meow85 said:

When it comes to men, I agree. I bet every single flamer in here claimed bi-sexuality. I did

Imago said:

Yes, my first boyfriend, an ex cop. And he was never Paul Lynde behind closed doors .

SilverlakePhil said:

Just to add to this topic, he told me he always dated women all his life due to peer pressure, until he met some guy he fell in love with and that was all she wrote.

Imago said:

This thread isn't just about you.

Imago said:

Gay men get off on saying they perform oral sex better than women.

superspaceboy said:

we do

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Preach it brotha

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Anyway, how can something be a myth if it's practiced?

Probably not a popular answer...but I think bisexuality is probably just a lifestyle choice....my opinion is based on studies I've seen or read.

But not being bi I wouldn't really know, now would I?

JustErin said:

Guys might like having you down there but that don't mean you're doing a good job!

Since you can deep throat champagne, I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt but generally, women don't hold a candle!
[Edited 6/22/09 12:35pm]

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

bullshit. I've had some guys down there who didn't know what the hell they were doing. Gay's aren't given some special gene that makes them a hoover. It's like kissing you have to either learn or be taught how to. N just to tangent a bit shoving your tongue down my throat n trying to eat my mouth ISNT kissing.