Does A One-Time Sexual Encounter With The Same Sex Make U Gay?

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Double standards. When do they and when don’t they apply? Many females go through an experimentation stage in college and go through an oral fixation with members of their same sex. Ya know. Just to try it out. Once they go through their phase and are back looking for "Big Rod", the "temporary lapse" in judgment is put behind her forever but that doesn’t make her a lesbian. Hell even women being bi-sexual isn’t even taboo anymore and most men love freaks in the bedroom.

But what happens when the situation is reversed. Say what? Yeah, we’re going there. If a man has a one time voluntary homosexual encounter is he forever gay or can he chalk that up to youthful experimentation and move on. See. Double standard.....

hecks yeah u gay al da way no shame n their game dats NASTY!!!!!

i don't think so. we label folks by their sexual preference--a one-time experiment doesn't say anything about what you 'prefer' sexually.

whistle said:

Yes.....

To me it does, I never think about it, so it wouldn't even get close to going there. It's all cool and about preference but only kitty for me.

No way.
If a gay man gets married to a woman and has children does that make him straight? Nope.
A man can be gay or straight even if they've never had sex with anyone. Having sex with someone doesn't determine your sexuality.
It’s about who you’re sexually attracted to. It’s about your insides, your emotions and who you fall in love with. It’s not about who you have sex with once. Or twice.

CarrieMpls said:

rocknrolldave said:

CarrieMpls said:

I think it's different for some men and women.

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NMuzakNSoul said:

Well it''s true for everyone it''s different. Then again at the same time, you can give me 20 beers and I STILL wouldn't have sex with a guy, it would amplify everything else and make me want women more, but it wouldn't make me look at dudes like that.

Suck one dick and your labeled a dicksucker...

Sexual preferences aren't that easy to define.

CarrieMpls said:

Unless you are raped, it doesn't make you gay but it does at least make you bisexual. A gay man can't be gay all by himself because it takes two to tango. And it's impossible for a gay man to sleep with a 100% straight man because a 100% straight man would never let another man (unless it's the doctor) so much as touch his dick, let alone suck it.

Until we let these men that fool with us know that they are at least bisexual and refuse to have any sexual contact with them whatsoever unless they admit it to themselves, we will never have equal rights and will always be bashed because these type of hypocritical men are the main ones bashing us much moreso than straight men.

That depends.
Was he also a Prince fan?

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Oh dear lawd, life is strange.

vivid is my new boo!

people are sexual.. people will always be sexual.. its pure sexuality..not a game of labels.

I have had several good male friends in their 20's develop crushes on me. And I don't consider them gay or bi.

There truly is a 'curious' streak in some guys at certain points in their life, but they emotionally and physically want women in the end. I totally understand the "curious" title that gets tacked on the bi-curious, because I've seen it in action. It's not even something I find odd.

As a matter of fact, I find gay men more odd than bi or bi-curious men. They fascinate me at times, being so much like women in many ways, except most don't have the ability to nurture like women. Yes, it's a generalization that can land me in hot water, but I've witnessed this too. I find it odd that many gay men have not at least tried to have a sexual encounter with a woman considering they're so much alike. The whole myth that gay men know more about how to pleasure you is a lie ... They could probably find a woman that could rock their shit good
Hell, I'm convinced some of the lesbians here on the org could probably show a gay man a pretty good time.

Sexuality is fluid for many folks.

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Oh dear lawd, life is strange.

vivid is my new boo!

I love looking at other women.Women have curves, soft skin, and features that a man just can't have,not matter what they do. Yes, I have been with another women before.
But I prefer sex with a man. A man can give me what a woman can't. A certain stimulation and climax that is mind blowing.

If this makes me gay, well that's cool with me

Yeah.

vainandy said:

Yes. I've never had a one time sexual encounter with a woman. NEVER

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Yes. I've never had a one time sexual encounter with a woman. NEVER

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Oh dear lawd, life is strange.

vivid is my new boo!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Yes. I've never had a one time sexual encounter with a woman. NEVER

hokie said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Yes. I've never had a one time sexual encounter with a woman. NEVER

You can try it with me. You said I made you not gay for like 2 seconds once.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

hokie said:

You can try it with me. You said I made you not gay for like 2 seconds once.

I think it was your hair or your shoes or something!

hokie said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I think it was your hair or your shoes or something!

So, I'll fix my hair and wear hot shoes.

And I'll suck your dick like a champ. Just close your eyes jack ass.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

hokie said:

So, I'll fix my hair and wear hot shoes.

And I'll suck your dick like a champ. Just close your eyes jack ass.

Yes Sir!