Is it innapropriate.....

Reply #1 posted 10/14/08 12:06pm

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myfavorite said:

...to flirt with a guy when he has a girlfriend????

In an open setting???

If she is present, yes. U might be courting a beat down with that one.

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Reply #2 posted 10/14/08 12:11pm

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eek allllrighty!

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Reply #3 posted 10/14/08 12:13pm

1sexymf

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myfavorite said:

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Reply #4 posted 10/14/08 12:16pm

JustErin

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Harmless flirting is ok if you're not doing it in front of his chick.

but if you're doing it to try and get him interested you, that's totally inappropriate.

This is why I never flirt unless I want the person.
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Reply #5 posted 10/14/08 12:18pm

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well, he should be the one asking himself that question. Would his gf be okay with that? But yes, should you encourage it? It depends on the relationship.

Personally I think flirting is generally harmless. I may be committed, but I cannot shut down completely to the outside world. Or at least, I don't want to. I want to treat a woman like a woman and that might mean flirting at times. It's a basic part of life.

But I wouldn't want to do it in any way that's disrespectful to my gf, gives the wrong impression, or act like she's not there and flirt with you.

Reply #6 posted 10/14/08 12:24pm

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Reply #7 posted 10/14/08 12:29pm

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harmless or not, don't flirt with my woman. punch

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Reply #8 posted 10/14/08 12:32pm

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I flirt for laughs.... falloff ... lol

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Reply #9 posted 10/14/08 12:36pm

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Reply #10 posted 10/14/08 12:38pm

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myfavorite said:

...to flirt with a guy when he has a girlfriend????

In an open setting???

Depends. If he has a girlfriend, and tells you that, but you are still trying to holla anyway when he is not interested, then maybe fall back.

BUT, if he tells you he has a girlfriend and is still hollering @ you and you two are vibing or what not see where it takes you. You never know.

Reply #11 posted 10/14/08 12:59pm

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1sexymf said:

myfavorite said:

...to flirt with a guy when he has a girlfriend????

In an open setting???

If she is present, yes. U might be courting a beat down with that one.

you summed it up right there!
but if she's not around then you're not doing anything wrong, and he should know to behave himself

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Reply #12 posted 10/14/08 1:09pm

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1sexymf said:

myfavorite said:

...to flirt with a guy when he has a girlfriend????

In an open setting???

If she is present, yes. U might be courting a beat down with that one.

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Reply #13 posted 10/14/08 1:20pm

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myfavorite said:

...to flirt with a guy when he has a girlfriend????

In an open setting???

Yes, if he's flirting back with her there, that's not cool.
But I would say it depends on the level of flirting.

If you wouldn't say it with her standing there . . . probably best to keep it to yourself.

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Reply #14 posted 10/14/08 2:45pm

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If his girlfriends a total bitch, go for it biggrin

If she's sweet and they're happy then that makes YOU the total bitch biggrin

Reply #15 posted 10/14/08 3:00pm

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myfavorite said:

I flirt for laughs.... falloff

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Which means you're gonna do it no matter what the circumstances are,
so why did you ask? biggrin

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Reply #16 posted 10/14/08 3:29pm

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I have had the flip side of what you asked.. guys trying to be slick and try to hide it in front of their gf's... and I haven't done crap, I'm just minding my business ..but the chick gives me dirty looks anyway .. uhm hello? shouldn't you be pissed @ your man??

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Reply #17 posted 10/14/08 3:38pm

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Yes it's inappropriate.
If you know he has a girlfriend then leave him alone.

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Reply #18 posted 10/14/08 3:45pm

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I always end up flirting with the girlfriend and the guy ends up like: eek redface

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Reply #19 posted 10/14/08 3:50pm

hokie

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myfavorite said:

...to flirt with a guy when he has a girlfriend????

In an open setting???

Yes. While technically he's still "single" (assuming he's not engaged or married) I still think it's tacky at best and disrespectful at worst.

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Reply #20 posted 10/14/08 3:59pm

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hokie said:

myfavorite said:

...to flirt with a guy when he has a girlfriend????

In an open setting???

Yes. While technically he's still "single" (assuming he's not engaged or married) I still think it's tacky at best and disrespectful at worst.

but what does HE think?

Reply #21 posted 10/14/08 4:07pm

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hokie said:

myfavorite said:

...to flirt with a guy when he has a girlfriend????

In an open setting???

Yes. While technically he's still "single" (assuming he's not engaged or married) I still think it's tacky at best and disrespectful at worst.

it is tacky... there's plenty other single men out there to flirt with ..... no need to steal somebody else's property ...

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Reply #22 posted 10/14/08 4:20pm

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Flowers2 said:

hokie said:

Yes. While technically he's still "single" (assuming he's not engaged or married) I still think it's tacky at best and disrespectful at worst.

it is tacky... there's plenty other single men out there to flirt with ..... no need to steal somebody else's property ...

it's not stealing and we're not property, but it can be tacky nod

Reply #23 posted 10/14/08 4:23pm

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myfavorite said:

...to flirt with a guy when he has a girlfriend????

In an open setting???

It all depends on intent and perception. If it's harmless and you know it, and he knows it, and she knows it then have at 'er. Or if you're flirting just to have fun it's usually harmless enough. But when there's real lust behind that flirting, tread lightly.

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Reply #24 posted 10/14/08 4:40pm

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NDRU said:

Flowers2 said:

it is tacky... there's plenty other single men out there to flirt with ..... no need to steal somebody else's property ...

it's not stealing and we're not property, but it can be tacky nod

you are if you belong to a 'wife' ..

Reply #25 posted 10/14/08 4:43pm

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Flowers2 said:

NDRU said:

it's not stealing and we're not property, but it can be tacky nod

you are if you belong to a 'wife' ..

well, I don't agree about owning each other, but the question was about having a girlfriend (and I don't really feel there's a difference anyway)
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Reply #26 posted 10/14/08 4:44pm

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Flowers2 said:

NDRU said:

it's not stealing and we're not property, but it can be tacky nod

you are if you belong to a 'wife' ..

I wouldn't say so. No one person is ever another person's property or posession.

It's not that The Joker's gay. What he is, is Batsexual. He'd be whacking it to Batsy whether our hero had girl parts or boy parts underneath that rubber. batman

Reply #27 posted 10/14/08 4:49pm

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NDRU said:

Flowers2 said:

you are if you belong to a 'wife' ..

well, I don't agree about owning each other, but the question was about having a girlfriend (and I don't really feel there's a difference anyway)
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I agree. Even if you are married I have a real problem with the word "property". IMO that kind of thinking is detrimental to the relationship and the individuals. Marriage for me is about two people that are already happy on their own who want to come together and be partners for life. I know not everyone defines it that way and not everyone feels the need to get married and that's cool. But, whether I'm married or not I will NEVER be anyone's property.

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Reply #28 posted 10/14/08 4:51pm

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NDRU said:

hokie said:

Yes. While technically he's still "single" (assuming he's not engaged or married) I still think it's tacky at best and disrespectful at worst.

but what does HE think?

Are you asking what he thinks his "status" is or if what he thinks about the flirting?

If he considers himself taken then he shouldn't want the attention. If he is OK with the flirting then he's a dope and needs a brick

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Reply #29 posted 10/14/08 5:01pm

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hokie said:

NDRU said:

well, I don't agree about owning each other, but the question was about having a girlfriend (and I don't really feel there's a difference anyway)
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uhm.. it's just slang terminology (not to mention a song).. I didn't realize you people would take this so personally ..