I googled some stuff to show her how damn easy it was to track someone. (We revised her acct.)

http://bbs.fengniao.com/f...php?u=1377
I showed her how as Karfen even I am in other countries!

I can't stress enough the importance of monitorinf teenage online accts. What they think is safe simply isn't

My cousin's girlfriend had this issue. Her little sister, 13 years old has a myspace account. The entire site is Sexy this and Sexy that. It's crazy. All these little playas writing to her with explicit comments. It doesn't help that she's beautiful.


M

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

I know how to rectify that situation in a heart beat! Either delete the acct or kill your service provider..... Momma don't play that mess..... My daughter only spoke to those she knew...her friends also were those she knew...HOWEVER, those linked to her identified their school and such and left comments in her real name and her pictures were on there.... All pics were removed and all refrences to her name as well..... She is artsy and clever... She now has a pic of her flip flops and favorite sweater on there. Her friends identify her but others can't track her.

What occured when I found out was I bet her with my computer knowledge I could track her idenity and location in less then 5 minutes.... She didn't think I could.... It took me some 30 seconds.... I cross refrenced her friends and had her city her school...what area within her school and full name..... I explained that any perp could use this to nail her in a heartbeat too.

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

You're a smart woman and a cool mom. You have to give your daughter credit, and I know you do, she seems like a very intelligent and on-the-ball young woman.

M

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

She is! She is so together and amazing that I need to be more on the ball... I didn't even know she had an acct.... found it quite naturally on the server. She thought in all her niave youthfulness that she was covert.....

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

Darlin, the thing that struck me about your kids is that when you introduced us to them they didn't get all shy and cower in a corner(kids do that, I know it's kind of normal) but looked at us straight on and said hi with a smile. That was awesome.

M

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Thank you!

how did you track her again...



I may need this info myself very soon...





concernedcoolmomedit

I hope these motherfuckers arnt tracking me!

I keep getting all these requests to add these poeple as friends who I dont know. Alot are other Aussies and some are these hot looking models. What sort of scam is this?

Sorry, maybe i'm a little slow, and i don't have kids...but what is a "space account"?

bkw said:

are they asking if you would like a "hot date" in your area? sounds like hookers to me!

My kids are gonna be on AOL Kids until they are in COLLEGE!!!!

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

What's her email address?

so what age would you say is alright for a person to start talking explicitly to their peers on the internet? 18 or 21? Just curious. What age did you start talking explicitly?

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

My ex-wife found out that she had some students of hers who had MySpace accounts that had suggestive poses on them...her students are 12 years old...

missfee said:

Not a "space account" -- a "myspace account".

Check out http://www.myspace.com/

It's supposedly popular among teens, but it's hardly a phenomenon that's restricted to them. I have a myspace account/page, and so do many of my friends -- and we're in our twenties and thirties. We consider it harmless fun (since we're adults), but it's difficult to ignore the potential for abuse and misuse...

bkw said:

No, I don't think so.

(coughMelbournecough)

Sorry. I think I'm coming down with a cold.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

From the little-est bits I witnessed, Muse is an AWESOME mom!
Strict and firm, but with SO much love and very, very fair. Her children have very much respect for her, and lotsa love too.

todd305 said:

oh so it's almost like blackplanet.com or something???

MySpace is crazy. Everyone is OBSESSED with it. I'm a sophmore in high school (15 years old) and almost everyone I know has a page. I have one myself. I don't think it's any more dangerous than being on this site. Also, you don't have to add people that you don't know. It's just as easy to click "Reject" as it is "Accept." Not only has MySpace allowed me to chat with my friends (and some family), but I've found people who I'd lost touch with. I don't think it's appropriate when young girls (even younger than myself) have provocative pictures of themselves with hardly any clothes on. I have a friend who is in the eighth grade (13 years old) with all these pictures of herself in her bra and she's just your "average" 13 year old girl. Another thing I just don't understand are the pictures of people smoking weed. WHY would you do that!? Anyways, I think it's ok for teenagers to use MySpace and to have pictures of themselves up, but I don't necessarily think they should go around adding people they don't know personally. Also, you can set your page to private, so that only the people on your friends list can view your page. This might be helpful to concerned parents? Well, just my view on MySpace...I'm quite addicted. www.myspace.com/lrcorvette90

myspace.....


Good parenting though Ren

Good work, Karf! Miss u!

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

This is why my daughter has no email or "myspace" (or any other "space" for that matter) accounts.

Right on Musenator.


tA

Tribal Disorder

http://www.soundclick.com...dID=182431

LRCorvette said:

hmm sounds like "facebook.com" where college students do the same....

missfee said:

im on facebook!

LRCorvette said:

Thanks for sharing! I see you are 15 but your myspace looks like you are 17? I only urge that you consider your name and highschool and even what afterschool activities are contained in your profile. If I were a perp I could easily seek you out. Maybe you can remove your school title? I would imagine your friends would link you right to it either way...Which is the case with my daughter so I asked her to remove her photos all the way around. She was bothered some but her creativity took over and she asked if she could put her flip flops and hoodie in a shot. I was pleased with the creativity. She is clever and I adore that in her.

I am by far not attempting to be an over protective parent but a girl that well knows this world aint all shes cracked up to be..... As a woman who lives with the attempted rape of her sister on a school campus in the bathroom in the 4th grade..... I well know that it doesn't always happened to someone else.....I live with the damage it does to a family..... I am however balanced... I didn't ask her to delete it... just inforce some safe gaurds.


Thankyou for the private info... Once she does so and it works effectively.... I may change my stance some. It is clear you have your head on your shoulders.

butterfli25 said:

Toss all known email addys in and it will pop up....in this case... I was using their computer and found the screen open but dropped to the bottom.

ufoclub said:

I can't answer that..... It depends on a good many factors.... I'll let it stand on those that know my family mechanics around here that I am right on this one.

madartista said:

I almooooosssssttttt wrote the same to you on a random thread.. I miss you too..... We shall have to carve out a bit of time on the 24th or 25th to catch up! I love you and enjoy the fam!