The Fag Hag thread

First of all, let that be the only time that disgusting stupid term is used in this thread That term is meant to demean both parties and it should never be used again

This is the thread for all the girls who accepted and befriended us gay boys and girls. I prefer to simply call you friend Without you, so many of us would have been in complete despair. I'm thankful for the girls who befriended me when I needed friends the most.

Thanks gals!

we use the term 'fruit fly'

'fag hags' fall in love with their boys while 'fruit flies' just buzz pleasantly about

HEY!!!! What about us guys who have gay friends?

I have vegemite and you don't!

buzzzzz

I have some really, really sweet gay friends whom are very, very dear to me!

althom said:

HEY!!!! What about us guys who have gay friends?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

althom said:

HEY!!!! What about us guys who have gay friends?

now that's a fag hag I don't know the term for that. I still just say friend

I have vegemite and you don't!

althom said:

HEY!!!! What about us guys who have gay friends?

only on the org, really... guess i have all the hetero i need in R/L...

npgmaverick said:

althom said:

HEY!!!! What about us guys who have gay friends?

I've heard Fag Stag used 2 describe gay-friendly dudes.

althom said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

now that's a fag hag I don't know the term for that. I still just say friend

I'm a fag hag?

althom said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

now that's a fag hag I don't know the term for that. I still just say friend

I'm a fag hag?

Thanks to all my straight girlfriends, I love them all, and will give up my seed for them.

I would like to also thank all my straight boy-friends that have no issue whatsoever in having me as a friend.

I almost forgot, I'd like to thank Supa also.....and the Academy.

I'm getting verklempt.


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[Edited 9/16/05 15:13pm]

a friends a friend. If they're not gonna treat us any differently because of our sexuality, why treat them any differently as well?

I never really considered "fag hag" a term of endearment for friends of mine who are straight. I usually only used the phrase to describe the ones who were clingy and getting on my nerves.

Tom said:

i always thought that the term fag hag was used for girls who "collected" gay men rather than had them as friends. You know, the kind love to brag about all the gay men who are their friends. Instead of having a friend who happens to be gay, they have "gay friends".


I was having dinner with someone the other night who was telling me about how all of her friends are gay men and how she just attracts gay men. It was just strange to me. So you have friends. great. do they really want you telling complete strangers about how they're all gay?

In anycase. it is an ugly term, no matter how it's used.

Though I see and understand the objections to the term, I also don't see it as really a big deal. I don't, but a lot of my friends use the phrase in a light-hearted manner.

Fruit fly is a cute one though, and it works for any queer-friendly straight buddies.

So a great big thank you goes out to all the "fruit flies" of the world. Without your love and support, I don't know where many of us would be now.

i have been around gay people all my life ...

to me they are just people... period

I don't usually use the term fag hag, but one of my (gay) friends calls me his fag hag and it doesn't really bother me. Actually, he calls me his "upgrade" since he ditched a friend who he now just refers to as a hag (b/c of her personality, not looks). I'm going to suggest fruit fly to him, its a lot cuter.

JasmineFire said:

Never taken one's sexuality into consideration before being friendly to someone....


Friends are friends....no matter what shape, color etc...
its whats inside the heart, and soul that matters



btw.....

LOVE U LOTS SUPA!!!

Imago777 said:

CarrieMpls said:

Imago777 said:

The proper term is Woman Vicariously Living Like A PlayGirl Through Gay Males, but it's too long.

I love you Supa

Mach said:

i have been around gay people all my life ...

to me they are just people... period

i seem to have better friendships with gay men then either women or straight men. still love my girlfriends and boyfriends but being a hag will always be in my nature...i even got a fairy tattoo for one of my bestest gay friends (Jason Lee...miss you sweets).

you're only as old as you feel..............so how old do i feel

Now that food has replaced sex in my life, I can't even get into my own pants.

What am I?

miguelgomez touched me on the way down to la. and on the way back to the bay area. i liked it both times.